I’m a part of a first-of-its-kind, four-day gathering led entirely by queer midlife voices, igniting desire, community, and self-discovery–on our terms.

Hear me speak about queer love and relationships in midlife, and how The 18 Modern Love Languages can be a valuable tool!

In this Queer Midlife virtual gathering, we talk about the things that matter to us.

Day 1: Unapologetic Bodies & Queering Menopause
Day 2: Liberated Desire & Revolutionary Relationships
Day 3: Resourcing Midlife through Queer Joy & Creative Becoming
Day 4: Community Care, Belonging & Our Future

Queer and trans people build resilience in extraordinary ways, and that matters in midlife.

We bust the boxes they handed us, including how we’re supposed to age.

Our queerness is our superpower.
Our love is magic.
Our commitment to a better world, unmatched.

But we still need each other to imagine radically different futures.

Pride has its corporate parades. Menopause culture has its cisnormative scripts. But where’s the joyful, pleasure-centered gathering for people who are queer AND in midlife?

We made the room that didn’t exist.

Queer in(g) Midlife is a gathering for the awakenings, reinventions, and delicious possibilities that emerge when we stop fitting into spaces never meant for us.

Hope to see you there!