March 20-21, 2027
9 a.m.-1 p.m. PT
Tiered pricing: $195-$395
7 AASECT CEs + 7 EDSE CEs
Online workshop
“I came in expecting to learn about the Modern Love Languages, but the program goes so much deeper.” - a 2026 attendee
The Modern Love Language Intensive offers clinicians, coaches, and sexuality professionals a deep dive into an updated and expansive approach to the popular "love language" relational theory. This workshop includes interactive exercises, large and small group discussion, skills-building, and more active learning tools.
This intensive is so much more than a “how to” workshop. With my guidance, you will:
Get clarity on the Southern Baptist origins of The 5 Love Languages® and what you and your clients need to know.
Learn how The 18 Modern Love Languages are different, and how to discuss them with clients in accessible ways.
Expand your perspective of love beyond romance or sex - and how to help your clients do the same.
Build a more expansive understanding of love, attraction, desire, fluidity, relationship, relationship hierarchy, and other key concepts relevant to your work.
Learn about harmful norms like heteronormativity, allonormativity, amatonormativity, purity culture, and rape culture and the sneaky, sometimes unassuming ways they show up in your work.
Practice how to use The Modern Love Language approach to address relational issues like “desire discrepancy,” sexual entitlement, “loveless” marriages, and more.
Learn how to help clients address relationship challenges in ways that center body autonomy, differentiation, interdependence, and consent culture.
Dismantle and reframe harmful constructs related to sex drive, libido, maintaining attraction, and “the spark.”
Practice and take home a toolbox of engaging activities you can bring into your client sessions right away.
Here’s what past attendees had to say about The Modern Love Language Intensive:
This workshop is right for you if:
You want to help your clients relate to love in a healthier, more expansive way.
You want tools for helping your clients dismantle common norms and expectations around sex, love, and connection.
Bodily autonomy, consent culture, and reproductive justice (among other important values) are important to you and your work.
You find tools like Attachment Theory, “parts work,” or boundary work helpful.
You feel inspired in communal learning (and unlearning) environments with like-minded people.
And more! Learn more about The Modern Love Language Intensive here.
If you need financial aid, visit the main event page to review my pricing tiers.
This program meets the requirements of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and is approved for 7 CE credits. These CE credits may be applied toward AASECT certification and renewal of certification.